Friday 9 February 2018

Is love really enough

The three magic words that we all love to hate and hate to love, sometimes I feel like we haven't really scratched the surface when we say we are in love with a particular person. I mean there are over a billion people on planet earth, so how is it possible that we fall for that one person, especially in the era of the new media (social media) which has made the world a global village, just like Marshall Mcluhan one of the fathers of mass communication predicted. 

I mean, in my lifetime I've dated a few girls and I have always at one point in time loved them all, but there's something that shifts inside of you when you find that one person that's made for you and only you and if you're lucky enough Cupid will have shot that person an arrow as well. 

To be honest I've been at a standstill in my life for like the last 4years and it feels like I'm just basically surviving and nothing else. We didn't just come to this world to pay bills and die! Or is that it? Anyway, when I met the love of my life to be very honest I wasn't ready, I even told her I wasn't ready but that I knew she was the one for me. Funny thing is love makes us all stupid and it's hard to control your emotions when you're helplessly and irrevocably in love with someone. When I say I wasn't ready, I mean I wanted to be financially stable and independent. I wanted to be successful first before the love of my life comes into the picture, guess Cupid had other plans for me. 

This year makes it the second year I've been dating the love of my life and I keep asking myself the same question over and over again, is love really enough?? I mean I've got plans for my life and all that don't get me wrong lol, my girl loves my drive and ambition but still I ask myself is love really enough?

I don't want my kids to lack anything they want, I need to spoil my wife every other day you know. However, one thing I have discovered is that if you keep waiting on anyone or anything before you decide to settle with that one person that makes your heart skip a beat, trust me you'll only have yourself to blame. 

Love is enough, love is the answer to any question you might have. Just pure love guys!!!

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